Profile Response: Maralis Martinez, Willimantic, CT

HWWLT Logo on yellowWe gauge our place in the world not just by where we are, but also by where we came from.

Maralis Martinez was born in Puerto Rico but spent most of her youth in New Britain, CT, living with a single mom in public housing. Maralis graduated high school but could not afford college. She worked various jobs, met her husband, went to community college, and obtained a four-year degree. Today, Maralis is a medical technologist at the local hospital where she works second shift three days a week and every other weekend to maximize the amount of time she and husband David (who has a traditional work schedule) can spend with their three-year old Laura. “We are the people who leave our families on Mother’s Day and holidays to take care of other’s family. But I love my work. I never thought I would be where I am.”

Screen Shot 2016-07-18 at 1.01.42 PMMaralis sees parallels between her life and her mother’s, between Laura and her own childhood. “My mother had her first child at age fifteen. Underage marriages were part of Puerto Rican culture. My sister had her first child at eighteen. I had my first child at thirty-one. There is a huge difference in what you can do for your child. I took maternity leave. We have a house without cockroaches or lead paint, a house I could afford to keep if anything happens to David.

“I believe in educating women and girls. If my mother had been educated, she would have had more opportunities; I would have had more opportunities.”

How will we live tomorrow?

IMG_6811“That’s a scary thought with everything going on in the country, with the politics. You hope it will get better. For some it does, for some it doesn’t.”

 

 

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About paulefallon

Greetings reader. I am a writer, architect, cyclist and father from Cambridge, MA. My primary blog, theawkwardpose.com is an archive of all my published writing. The title refers to a sequence of three yoga positions that increase focus and build strength by shifting the body’s center of gravity. The objective is balance without stability. My writing addresses opposing tension in our world, and my attempt to find balance through understanding that opposition. During 2015-2106 I am cycling through all 48 mainland United States and asking the question "How will we live tomorrow?" That journey is chronicled in a dedicated blog, www.howwillwelivetomorrw.com, that includes personal writing related to my adventure as well as others' responses to my question. Thank you for visiting.
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2 Responses to Profile Response: Maralis Martinez, Willimantic, CT

  1. David Gibson says:

    Shorty, Given the timing, are more of the responses oriented towards politics?

    David

    On Jul 20, 2016 10:06 AM, “How Will We Live Tomorrow?” wrote:

    > paulefallon posted: “We gauge our place in the world not just by where we > are, but also by where we came from. Maralis Martinez was born in Puerto > Rico but spent most of her youth in New Britain, CT, living with a single > mom in public housing. Maralis graduated high school” >

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  2. paulefallon says:

    Yes, I feel like I am in a completely different political landscape. Hard to know if it’s the East Coast or the timing of the Presidential election. I think it is more of the latter.

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